Are you aware of your feelings? Can you decide when you are happy,
when you are sad? Can you take responsibility how you feel? Do you blame
other people because of your current situation?
Do you say, you are depressed?
Nowadays
a lot of people feeling down, feeling depressed. One part of people
admit it like kind of sickness, some not. I do not tell who has right.
It is always you who decide, you admit your "bad feelings" as a
sickness, so after all you can blame the doctors not giving you right
treatment to come out of your depressed state.
Or you can take your feelings, your life into your own hand and go out to the world.
Think
about it, all of our state, emotions are just for this moment. Those
are just feelings of the moment. That can happen after 1 minute you will
laugh because you see a funny guy walking cross the street. Or you see a
red nose clown who makes you laugh. Never know. Emotions, feelings are
coming and leaving.
See your feelings, your state on
the other hand. What if this depression just a signal of your body to
listen. When you are in a bad mood, you don't feel to do much, to go
out, meet with friends, have party. No, you just want to be alone,
beyond closed door. Your soul wants to be alone to give you the chance
to listen. To listen what your soul wants to tell you. It is you, who
decide to listen to it or just sink deeper and deeper in your bad
feelings. Just take the example. You have a job, and you go always on
time, you are good in your work. You live in a continuous stress and
pressure. But now you decide to have a holiday for 2 weeks. You are
happy about your coming holiday. On your last Friday you are just WOW
happy and waiting for the last second to check out. Yuheeee, holiday and
you leave extra happy your work. You go home, plan everything and on
Monday you are ready to travel. During weekend you try to relax to be
prepared for the traveling. But on Monday, you wake up with cold. Why is
it? Because your body turned on relax mode, no stress, no hurry. Your
immune system now works on a normal mode, it wants you to stay in bed,
relax, don't do anything.
The same applies when your
mind turns you off. I do not say meditate, it is own choice. But try to
listen to your soul, your body what it wants to tell you. Does it say,
get up and move, go out, read a book, ... Then move your ass and DO
IT! Take the actions, not just let the bad things to happen to you! Do
it yourself, if you need help, then ask! You can ask me, your friends, a
psychologist. But stop hiding behind excuses.
Changes
are hard, yes. Step out from your shelter is hard, doing something new
can be frightened. But ask yourself, staying in a cave alone without
will is better than standing up and going out to the light with power,
strenght?

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